My dearest Panda!
I know there are lot many things happening in life right now with career and relationships. I can understand it’s all exhausting in a way. But just take a deep breath and think from your heart. Just go for a walk or drive, spend time on your own when it is really hard for you to decide on anything. First try to understand about yourself. Only if you know about yourself, you would know whether you need something or not. Only then you would know if you have to give up on that or put in your heart and soul and get it by all means. Try to take one step at a time.
Also, you have to remember that nothing is easy in life. Be it career, relationships or anything for that matter. If its easy, its gonna be gone easily too. When you feel that you want to give up on something just think on why you started that in the first place, think whether you would be happy if you give up on this. If you are giving up, remember all the effort you had put in for so long is going for utter waste. Find some motivation to complete on whatever you had started.
I want to tell you few things which I want you to remember throughout your journey of life.
Never ever think that you are not worth things in life. Always remember, you are way more smarter and talented than most of the people out there. Don’t underestimate you. Today when you see from outside, something or someone might be in a better place than you are right now but, that doesn’t have anything to question the way you are or your life in any manner. Whatever happens in your life, happens for a reason. Certain things just happen on its own and for certain things you have to “make it happen.” Its always about the attitude and how you carry yourself before people. The person whom are today, is not a joke. You faced obstacles to be where you are today. Likewise, whatever or wherever you want to be in life, takes time. It can’t happen overnight. Give it time.
Problems are a part and parcel of life. It comes as a package, though we didn’t opt for it. It is common for anyone to feel lost under pressure. We are all humans end of the day. But running away from it is not a solution. At one point or the other, you have to face it. Though you might think you suck at it, you would have actually handled the problem well.
Choose people to show you weakness. I’m not saying that people would judge you its just that not everyone would be able to see things from your shoes. Few, very few people do that.
About the most overrated thing, love. I can imagine your expression on this. But lets be practical and realistic. In future, you may or may not find your kind of a person. And if you ever like someone and want to be with her as she wants to be with you to, don’t give up on the relationship without giving in your effort. As you know relationships aren’t like how its seen in movies. It take efforts to build a relationship and to maintain it. Everything has its own ups and downs and so does love and relationship. It never going to be smooth. There might come a point when you want to end the relationship, don’t decide in a hurry and make hasty decisions. Calm yourself, breathe and decide. Talk to people, get suggestions but don’t let anyone decide for you. Few adjustments here and there are not gonna bring down your standards. Keep in mind, people show their love only in the way they know to express.
Last but not the least, promise me that you will never think about ending your life no matter what. Many people out there, are striving to have a life like you have. In a way, you are lucky when compared to those people. You live only once so try to make the best of it. What if everything happens in life just the way we want it to? If we lead a life in such a way, we might not even realize the worth of things we have. Life will never be interesting if it was destined to be that way, love.
You may not need my presence or these words in the days yet to come but I want to tell that I’ll always be there for you. Wherever life takes us in the future, I promise that I would love to hear from you even if I have a family of my own. Though not always in person but always a call away. But if there comes a day when I’m not going to be with you anymore, I want you to remember whatever I have mentioned in this letter as you move ahead in your life.
– with tons of love & affection,