A letter signed with utmost care

My dearest Panda!

I know there are lot many things happening in life right now with career and relationships. I can understand it’s all exhausting in a way. But just take a deep breath and think from your heart. Just go for a walk or drive, spend time on your own when it is really hard for you to decide on anything. First try to understand about yourself. Only if you know about yourself, you would know whether you need something or not. Only then you would know if you have to give up on that or put in your heart and soul and get it by all means. Try to take one step at a time.

Also, you have to remember that nothing is easy in life. Be it career, relationships or anything for that matter. If its easy, its gonna be gone easily too. When you feel that you want to give up on something just think on why you started that in the first place, think whether you would be happy if you give up on this. If you are giving up, remember all the effort you had put in for so long is going for utter waste. Find some motivation to complete on whatever you had started.

I want to tell you few things which I want you to remember throughout your journey of life.

Never ever think that you are not worth things in life. Always remember, you are way more smarter and talented than most of the people out there. Don’t underestimate you. Today when you see from outside, something or someone might be in a better place than you are right now but, that doesn’t have anything to question the way you are or your life in any manner. Whatever happens in your life, happens for a reason. Certain things just happen on its own and for certain things you have to “make it happen.” Its always about the attitude and how you carry yourself before people. The person whom are today, is not a joke. You faced obstacles to be where you are today. Likewise, whatever or wherever you want to be in life, takes time. It can’t happen overnight. Give it time.

Problems are a part and parcel of life. It comes as a package, though we didn’t opt for it. It is common for anyone to feel lost under pressure. We are all humans end of the day. But running away from it is not a solution. At one point or the other, you have to face it. Though you might think you suck at it, you would have actually handled the problem well.

Choose people to show you weakness. I’m not saying that people would judge you its just that not everyone would be able to see things from your shoes. Few, very few people do that.

About the most overrated thing, love. I can imagine your expression on this. But lets be practical and realistic. In future, you may or may not find your kind of a person. And if you ever like someone and want to be with her as she wants to be with you to, don’t give up on the relationship without giving in your effort. As you know relationships aren’t like how its seen in movies. It take efforts to build a relationship and to maintain it. Everything has its own ups and downs and so does love and relationship. It never going to be smooth. There might come a point when you want to end the relationship, don’t decide in a hurry and make hasty decisions. Calm yourself, breathe and decide. Talk to people, get suggestions but don’t let anyone decide for you. Few adjustments here and there are not gonna bring down your standards. Keep in mind, people show their love only in the way they know to express.

Last but not the least, promise me that you will never think about ending your life no matter what. Many people out there, are striving to have a life like you have. In a way, you are lucky when compared to those people. You live only once so try to make the best of it. What if everything happens in life just the way we want it to? If we lead a life in such a way, we might not even realize the worth of things we have. Life will never be interesting if it was destined to be that way, love.

You may not need my presence or these words in the days yet to come but I want to tell that I’ll always be there for you. Wherever life takes us in the future, I promise that I would love to hear from you even if I have a family of my own. Though not always in person but always a call away. But if there comes a day when I’m not going to be with you anymore, I want you to remember whatever I have mentioned in this letter as you move ahead in your life.

– with tons of love & affection,

your goofball.

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Trapped in adulthood

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You know you are in adulthood. .  .

When you realize the unpleasant truth that life is unfair and you have to live with it.

When being alone feels good than being in a crowd where you don’t belong.

When having one true friend is all that you could ask for than a “cool gang” to hangout.

When you wish to grow old with someone than just having a macho boyfriend to fool around.

When you realize age has nothing to do with being matured.

When you just want to freeze time from ticking towards the future.

When you hate growing older.

When you are done with fake smiles and masked faces.

When you desire to relive your childhood memories with your most favorite people who are no longer with you.

When you know no matter wherever you go, no place can give the warmth of your home.

When leaving home reminds you that your grandma is no longer there to wave bye at the doorsteps.

When you hold back your tears just to remind yourself that you are stronger than you think.

When you get used to life hitting you with a hard reality.

When you are least bothered about people’s opinion.

When you are fine with letting go of people as you move ahead in life.

When pocket-money had changed to salaries.

When you meet the illusion of being happy.

When you understand forever and happily ever after exists only in fairy tales.

When being pampered changed to being responsible.

When darkness comforts you more than the daylight.

When you feel childhood fears are nothing when compared to adulthood nightmares.

When you get to know that your parent’s yelling are anytime better than your boss’s scolding.

When your sister and you talk about brutality of life rather than fighting over the T.V remote.

When wearing uniform everyday seems better than staring at your wardrobe for hours and crib on nothing to wear.

When you understand that the only constant people in your life are your mom and dad.

I remember how much I desired to grow up to be an adult and lead an independent life. But now, if given a choice to choose adulthood over childhood, I know what I would choose.

 

When love meets you

You might think when love meets you life will give you an hint that this is the person whom you have been wanting to meet all your life but, the truth is it is going to be as normal as every other moment. There are chances that you  might have not even expected that person to be your person. When love meets you might not even be ready for it. May be, you fail to recognize love when it meets you.
Love may not be the handsome guy you had dreamed about rather he might be someone who is totally opposite of handsome. Yet, he will love you like your mom, guide you like your dad, irritate you like a sister, lend shoulders like a friend and make love to you like your better half. Yes, Love comes as a package!

Love might not own a bungalow, love might not be luxurious but, love can give anything for you to make you happy. 

Above all, love might not be the guy you want but, he will be the man you need.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Open letter to the love life

Dear love,

I have no idea on what you have in store for me but, you have always made my hopes high on you. Thanks to social media, which constantly shows me posts related to love and relationships. People posts, page posts and even quiz pages reminds me about you and makes me worry about the non-existing love life of mine. At times, reading articles about you and seeing the level of importance people give you makes me feel like you are just overrated. Even then, I never stopped being hopelessly romantic.heart-700141_960_720

Some tell me that you are true only if you satisfy certain conditions. Others tell me something totally different about you. Can I really define you to be in a particular state only? I believe you differ from people to people based on the way they had seen and learnt to express you to their loved ones. But unfortunately, society never ceases to stereotype.

I do not expect you to bring a gallant and daring hero to my life but, I hope from the bottom of my heart that you would show me someone who chooses to stay by my side and face the ups and downs  that life throws at us, together. A man who wouldn’t judge me for the person I am. Someone who would hold my hand and never let go.  My hope on you started in my teens and it had never gone down a bit. I blindly keep looking for you in every prospective person I meet.

Are you ever going to make me meet someone like that? You might or you might not, but all I ask you for is stop setting my expectations high on you. I don’t want you to take me to people who are just going to hurt me. Enough of all the lessons you had taught by making me meet so many random and temporary people. I’m exhausted with all the dramas I have to go through when you step out of my life.

Every time you walk into my life, you make me feel that this time our connection is going to be different and every single time you walk out, I hope and fail on not to let you enter my life ever again.

Yours “lovingly”,

a hopeless romantic.Total

Open letter to the love life

Dear love,

I have no idea on what you have in store for me but, you have always made my hopes high on you. Thanks to social media, which constantly shows me posts related to love and relationships. People posts, page posts and even quiz pages reminds me about you and makes me worry about the non-existing love life of mine. At times, reading articles about you and seeing the level of importance people give you makes me feel like you are just overrated. Even then, I never stopped being hopelessly romantic.heart-700141_960_720

Some tell me that you are true only if you satisfy certain conditions. Others tell me something totally different about you. Can I really define you to be in a particular state only? I believe you differ from people to people based on the way they had seen and learnt to express you to their loved ones. But unfortunately, society never ceases to stereotype.

I do not expect you to bring a gallant and daring hero to my life but, I hope from the bottom of my heart that you would show me someone who chooses to stay by my side and face the ups and downs  that life throws at us, together. A man who wouldn’t judge me for the person I am. Someone who would hold my hand and never let go.  My hope on you started in my teens and it had never gone down a bit. I blindly keep looking for you in every prospective person I meet.

Are you ever going to make me meet someone like that? You might or you might not, but all I ask you for is stop setting my expectations high on you. I don’t want you to take me to people who are just going to hurt me. Enough of all the lessons you had taught by making me meet so many random and temporary people. I’m exhausted with all the dramas I have to go through when you step out of my life.

Every time you walk into my life, you make me feel that this time our connection is going to be different and every single time you walk out, I hope and fail on not to let you enter my life ever again.

Yours “lovingly”,

a hopeless romantic.

 

 

 

Likeness in hatred

I hate him. . .

When he makes me feel all alone.

When he doesn’t bother that I  exist.

When he turns to be a moron with attitude.

When he ignores me claiming to be busy.

When he makes me feel so obsessed about him.

When I can’t stop waiting for his messages.

When he makes me doubt his love for me.

When he acts cool when I’m mad at him.

When he gets annoyed with me rather than me getting annoyed with him.

When he puts me down.

When he treats me like a stranger.

When he gives diplomatic answers to my questions.

When his mind oscillates more than a pendulum.

When he says that he likes me but never acts so.

When he makes me feel like I’m nobody to him.

When he gives me hopes and let it fade away immediately.

Of all these reasons, I hate him the most for making me love him like there are no reasons to hate him at all.